Synopsis: It took two years to get pregnant, in spite of trying various medical interventions to help the process!
After two years of marriage, we decided we wanted to try for a baby! I stopped taking hormonal birth control and started reading
Taking Charge of Your Fertility. I like to plan, and I was going to plan this baby, that's for sure. I began
charting my basal body temperatures to figure out my cycles so we could have the best chances of pregnancy.
And then, my menstrual cycles went haywire. Like, 4 months without menstruation, then a month of spotting, and no rhyme nor reason to my temperature charts. Prior to using hormonal birth control, my cycles had been pretty regular, so at first, I attributed all of this to the hormonal changes of going off of birth control.
After six months of this, though, I decided to see a doctor. Blood tests revealed elevated prolactin and testosterone levels, and this combined with obvious anovulatory cycles landed me the
PCOS diagnosis. I was
prescribed Metformin and encouraged to lose weight.
Eight more months passed, and in spite of
losing 30 lbs and having my cycles regulate, my doctor's advice was always, "Keep doing what you're doing, and call when you get pregnant!" At this point, at least, an HSG test was ordered, and a semen analysis was ordered for my husband.
My fallopian tubes were normal and there were
no blockages. And my husband's semen analysis was
"above average" -- no problems there. This was good news, but also confusing news, as my temperature charting indicated that ovulation was occurring each cycle, and now we knew that the tubes were fine as well. My doctor's advice was still, "Keep doing what you're doing, and call when you get pregnant!"
I decided to
switch doctors, as it was obvious to me that the original doctor was not taking this as seriously as I thought she should.
After an unfruitful 17 months of trying to conceive, my new doctor had a new game plan for us. I was
prescribed Femara and instructed to start using
ovulation predictors in addition to charting my temperatures. When the test strips indicated impending ovulation, we were to abstain the day of the test and then have intercourse the next day.
Six cycles (=6 months) on increasing levels of Femara, and with charting and ovulation tests clearly indicating ovulation, and we still had had no success! I was understandably disheartened.
Almost two years to the day of when we had started trying to conceive, we met with our fertility specialist for the first time. She was impressed with my thorough documentation of everything, and that I had already had all of the pertinent testing done and had brought my medical records along for the appointment. Based on all of the factors, she decided that at this point,
the cause of my infertility was unexplained by PCOS or anything else. Her recommendation was to
try intra-uterine insemination (IUI) for the next few cycles, and potentially move on to in-vitro fertilization (IVF) if I still wasn't pregnant after that.
I was so thrilled & grateful that, because I was early in my cycle at that point, we would begin immediately! I had a baseline ultrasound the same day as our consultation and began an additional round of Femara.
I took
Femara for CD5-9, had an ultrasound mid-cycle to check follicles, triggered ovulation with an
HCG shot, and went in for the
IUI. The next day, I began
progesterone suppositories. Blessedly, 13 days later,
my blood HCG test came back positive. I could hardly believe our first IUI had been a
success!!
